blaming

Whatever a person encounters when they are young, he adopts with him into the adult years and sometimes subconsciously recreates or re-enacts individuals dynamics at school, at places of employment, in clubs and organizations, within the family, and, if he seeks recovery, during twelve-step conferences. Whether these encounters are good or bad anyway, they become internalized and recognized and, once the person wants to change any feelings, feelings, behaviors, and reactions according to them, he or she must identify, understand, address, process, and transcend them. It's unlikely he is able to do this by themself. Because parents aren't perfect generally…